HAVING BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND
HELPS STUDENTS LEARNING?
Presumably, everybody dreams to have no problem. Living in a problem might mean living in sickness. The problem could come from anywhere and from any condition. Having a boyfriend might lead to a big problem especially when you do that while you is a student. I realize that some students will encounter this idea. They think that it encourages them learn more and more. It might be highest motivation in their learning. Their lives are more complete and beautiful. If everyone doesn’t have boyfriend or girlfriend their life will be sick and blind. Is it always true if you have lover, it will encourages you and your life will be sick? Don’t you ever think that having boyfriend and girlfriend means disturb you?
There are two main reasons; it’s about school time and freedom. Because school time means learning and improves our knowledge. Relation is also over protective, because there are too many dos and don’ts.
The first and the most important reason is school time. There’s a lot of thing to do. School time is not the best time to make “commitment”. It has negative effects for their learning because it will disturb their concentration. For example, when their partner got angry, their body and brain become too sick and weak. They never think about lesson. How to make their boyfriend smiles at them it is in their mind. They are busy, but busy with their partner not responsibilities in their learning.
The second and the last reason is freedom. There are too many dos and don’ts from our partner. Our partner locks us in the dark room. They blame us, whatever we do its wrong. They are over protective with us. They might king in the kingdom, force us to do something without his or her permission. They protect us with their injustice. They are suppressing us abnormally. They want to know whatever our activities, even thought that are secrete. The result is we can’t enjoy our life with our friends and others.
The conclusion, student’s job is exploring their ability and skill not only in academic but also religious. They should leave their responsibilities, having partner it was no exception. Because having partner means having new responsibilities. It can mix their attention in their study. The fact of it is too painful. They not allow us to share with others. Imagine when our partner leaves us, what will happen with our life? We don’t have friends, our life is alone. So, we should weight up the pros and cons before making a final decision. Think it over, and let us reach our freedom and beautiful life in our way. Don’t be depending on him or her!
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