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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
Blood is ticker than water.
The higher you clime, the harder you fall.
 

 

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HAVING BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND

HELPS STUDENTS LEARNING?

Presumably, everybody dreams to have no problem.  Living in a problem might mean living in sickness. The problem could come from anywhere and from any condition. Having a boyfriend might lead to a big problem especially when you do that while you is a student. I realize that some students will encounter this idea. They think that it encourages them learn more and more. It might be highest motivation in their learning. Their lives are more complete and beautiful. If everyone doesn’t have boyfriend or girlfriend their life will be sick and blind. Is it always true if you have lover, it will encourages you and your life will be sick? Don’t you ever think that having boyfriend and girlfriend means disturb you?

There are two main reasons; it’s about school time and freedom. Because school time means learning and improves our knowledge. Relation is also over protective, because there are too many dos and don’ts.

The first and the most important reason is school time. There’s a lot of thing to do. School time is not the best time to make “commitment”. It has negative effects for their learning because it will disturb their concentration. For example, when their partner got angry, their body and brain become too sick and weak. They never think about lesson. How to make their boyfriend smiles at them it is in their mind. They are busy, but busy with their partner not responsibilities in their learning.

 The second and the last reason is freedom. There are too many dos and don’ts from our partner. Our partner locks us in the dark room. They blame us, whatever we do its wrong. They are over protective with us. They might king in the kingdom, force us to do something without his or her permission. They protect us with their injustice. They are suppressing us abnormally. They want to know whatever our activities, even thought that are secrete. The result is we can’t enjoy our life with our friends and others.

 The conclusion, student’s job is exploring their ability and skill not only in academic but also religious. They should leave their responsibilities, having partner it was no exception. Because having partner means having new responsibilities. It can mix their attention in their study. The fact of it is too painful. They not allow us to share with others. Imagine when our partner leaves us, what will happen with our life? We don’t have friends, our life is alone. So, we should weight up the pros and cons before making a final decision. Think it over, and let us reach our freedom and beautiful life in our way. Don’t be depending on him or her!

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It’s Me an Amazing Women, Nurul Aini

Everybody wants to live happily, but sometimes life is like looking a needle in a haystack. Just to let you know that not every storm cloud falls as rain. When we admitting weaknesses is not a weakness because everything has its own cost. Life is sometimes not fair, it was happened to everyone and I was no exception. My name is Nurul Aini. I am a simple girl, but I have a great dream to be an amazing woman who has an amazing skill. I was born in happy family in Tambah Subur on September 18, 1991. I live in Tambah Subur with my beloved family. My parent’s names are M.Wahyuri and Umi Kulsum. They have three children, and I am the first child. I have two younger brothers; their names are M.Kholil Mashuri and M.Zaenal Arif. My parents are Javanese. They came from poor family. My grandfathers and grandmothers are farmer. So that’s why my parents are also farmer. My family life was not good enough; because of they didn’t have a good education in that time. My father was graduated in senior high school and my mother was graduated in elementary school. But I am proud of them, because they decided to work hard and sincerely for their children. Sometimes my father as a farm work to get some money and to continue our life. It was as hard as I know, because my grandfather told me that my father always works harder than now. My childhood was very bad. I cannot play anymore because I didn’t have toys and friends. I spent all my time to carry my goats in the field. That was funny, but sometimes I was bored. Nevertheless, my family is very happy, my parents gives their children the best thing. They always give me supports and a big motivation for my best future. I grew in seven years old, I enter in elementary school. I felt more easy and happy, because my life was changed. My father got a new job as a sales agent, and it could increase our income. I was very happy. I had many friends and my parents bought me a new bike cycle. I have graduated from elementary, junior high school, senior high school. There so many things that I found. I realized that my life was getting better. I got much knowledge and unforgettable experience, I am falling in love with someone, found a close friend and also more close with my teachers. In this case, I had many dreams, but the most important dream is become to an international English teacher. Now, I studied at State Islamic College Jurai Siwo Metro in English department, because I want my wonderful dreamed was reachable. This is the way to gain it, and my family life will go up. So I could bring my family life in the bright world. I believe that what my mind can conceive and believe I can achieve. Trust me; God will help us that help ourselves because there was no power in this world except Allah SWT.

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FAILURE, IS ALL WHAT YOU NEED?

Do you know what your problem is?  Yes, you do, you are shy with your failure. Failure is a monster, it is hungry and need someone to eat heartily, but that is your imagination. What a shame-you are trapped, trapped into your highest emotion. Don’t wear a mask and try to hide your tears when you are achieving failure. Don’t kill yourself with failure. Remember one thing: if you must be in this situation, in this mess, then this situation, this mess is created by yourself. If you find the failure too much, then change yourself-do better next time because fear of failure should not deter you from trying. It is only then, you will realize that is useless you have been. How very stupid of you! That is temporary and momentary.

So, what is failure? That is your need. Try to love failure; make relation with failure, failure is your close friend. Failure is not monster, but princess. Don’t be afraid of failure. Proud of, that you obtain failure. A hard fact of it, realize that is better and useful. Failure, which is the first step you will be taking on best future of life. It makes you a more confident person. I ask you to enjoy life, to accept whatever comes in your own way and failure it is no exception. Release yourself of all tensions and worries about fear of failure. Can you change it? Can you do about it? If yes, by all means do that. If not, then you might as well enjoy it.

 Go out and enjoy the sunshine, don’t lock yourself in rooms without ventilation. Stand on your own two feet. Failure is not failure, but it is a success. Success and failure, both are inseparable sides of one and the same coin. Appreciate your failure; it is a master of life.